To have confidence, one must find strength through fear.
Looking in the barrel of the gun and seeing life in the face of death.
In its simplest form, being able to speak your mind; a staunch believer in your words and unafraid of the criticism that may come in accordance.
As we grow, we are tested in many aspects of life. It becomes the balance of whether life is for us or against us.
Confidence is what tips the scale in favor.
It is what attracts women to men, gives us the edge in an interview.
A woman is very likely to go after the man who is confident in what he’s doing over the one that is unsure of his capabilities as a man.
And the very same can be said vice versa.
With confidence, there comes an air of cockiness; but this, in a sense, needed. To be successful in any endeavor, there has to be a belief that you are more capable of the task than others that are after the same goal. It is merely a product of believing in one’s self. Of course in excess can have adverse results.
But with confidence installed, all things are possible.
You won’t require validation from anyone or anything for who you are or what you are to become.
Nothing holds you back from the promotion of you.
Being able to speak your mind; a staunch believer in your words and unafraid of the criticism that may come in accordance.
We grow up with this commercial idea, this propagandist view on Life. Told what to be. How to look. How to dress. What to say. With such a obsequious society, many fall into a series of irrelevant attempts to become cool within the substandards of today’s social commentary.
The unfortunate result is the critical state of a once promising and luminous culture.
The Vehement have become listless.
The cliched have become media’s success and comedic relief.
Originality takes a backseat.
And I am its pugnacious company.
I like those blogs for like “She’s Bomb” That features attractive or — for lack of a better term “bomb” women.
But I always find myself thinking - yeah she’s fine and all.. but what else does she do; or like to do.
What I’d really like to see is a blog dedicated to everything else. Their writing, their artsy side; things of that nature.
So I’m going to make one dedicated to such talents.
I’m going to come up with a name and if any of you lovely artsy women of the tumblr world have anything such as writing, drawing, singing, even dancing (the list of talents will go on) would like to submit to it. Like or reblog this post. Help me get the word out.
What we use vicariously through our experience.
To imagine scenarios with someone we have interest or goals we wish to accomplish them.
The double-edged sword; as powerful as its blade is, it can also harm us in the same swing.
We can imagine everything that we wish to happen, coming to fruition; and forget to accomplish them from our own subconscience.
A paradox of our minds.
You Are Beautiful
In every way. An imperfection to you is perfection to me. It matches you, perfectly. I couldn’t imagine you in any other way.
“It’s your everything that makes you such a beautiful being”.